Matching that pays attention
Our model weighs the conversations you actually continue, so recommendations sharpen with every reply.
Real people, verified profiles, conversations worth having.
No credit card. Cancel or delete your account any time.
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Get started in under 3 minutes
Six questions, three photos, done. No essays, no personality quiz that takes a lunch break.
About 2 minutes
We learn from who you message back, not just who you tap. Your list gets sharper every week.
Refreshed daily at 6pm
Chat in-app, move to a video call when you are ready, and meet when it feels right.
At your pace
Success stories
We matched on a Tuesday and argued about breakfast tacos for three hours straight. June proposed at the same taqueria last spring.
Marisol & June
Austin, TX
Together 2 years, 4 months
I had deleted three other apps that month. What kept me here was that people replied like humans instead of trading one-word openers.
Teodoro & Priya
Chicago, IL
Together 1 year, 8 months
The verification badge is why I answered at all. Knowing a real person sat behind the profile took the edge off the whole thing.
Ama & Devin
Manchester, UK
Together 11 months
Our first date was a 40-minute coffee that turned into closing down the bookshop next door. We still go back every February.
Rosalind & Hana
Portland, OR
Together 3 years, 1 month
What you get
Our model weighs the conversations you actually continue, so recommendations sharpen with every reply.
Every profile clears photo verification before it appears, and moderators review reports around the clock.
The iOS and Android apps carry your matches, chats and filters with you. Nothing lives on one device.
No credit card at sign-up, no trial that quietly renews. Upgrade only if a paid feature earns it.
We never sell member data or run ads against your messages. Export or delete everything in two taps.
Safety & privacy
Dating only works when you feel safe enough to be honest. Here is exactly what we do about that, in plain language.
A live selfie is matched against profile photos before anyone can send a first message.
Hide your profile from work contacts, blur photos until you unlock them, and browse invisibly any time.
One tap removes someone from your view permanently and sends the thread to our safety team.
A trained human reviews every report. Most are actioned within 30 minutes, day or night.
Messages and photos are encrypted in transit and at rest with AES-256 and rotating keys.
Questions
Yes. Creating a profile, browsing matches and sending messages cost nothing, and we do not ask for a card at sign-up. Brad1012 Plus adds travel mode, read receipts and unlimited rewinds for £11.40 a month if you ever want them.
Your profile is invisible to anyone you have blocked or hidden, photos can stay blurred until you choose to unlock them, and we never sell member data or run advertising against your messages. You can export or permanently delete your account from Settings in two taps.
Most apps optimise for taps. We weigh the conversations you keep going — reply length, response time, whether a chat survives past day three — so the list you see on Friday reflects how you actually connect, not just who you swiped on.
Any paid plan can be cancelled from Settings and stays active until the end of the period you already paid for. There is no cancellation fee, no retention phone call, and no reactivation charge if you come back.
Every member completes live selfie verification before their profile goes public, and the badge disappears if photos change without re-verifying. Reports go to a human moderator, and in 2026 we removed 4,182 accounts that failed a second review.
Two fields, one tap, and the rest of it can wait until you have had a look around.
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